Saying no

I like being liked. It is a problem. Ken Fong at Evergreen Baptist Church LA preached about Jesus' exhortion to let our "yes" be simply yes. I am a king of weasle words... Maybe, sure... I think, sounds great... I hate saying no because I am afraid of being disliked or disregarded. Uncool. So. I'm learning that yes is always weasly without learning how to rightly say no.